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Buying My 5-Year-Old Her First Big Mattress: What I Learned
Last week, I had one of those small but meaningful fatherhood moments—buying my daughter Alice a new mattress. She’s five now, and her old toddler mattress was officially too small. Between her habit of sleeping sideways and her tendency to pile stuffed animals beside her, space was running out quickly. At first glance, buying a mattress for a child seems simple: just pick one that fits the bed frame and call it a day. But once I started looking around, I realized there’s a l

Anderson Alves
Sep 16, 20254 min read
Making Breakfast with My Daughter: Why These Moments Matter
Cooking Breakfast with Kids: A Heartfelt Journey into Fatherhood Cooking breakfast with kids isn’t just about food—it’s about connection. For dads like me, especially those navigating fatherhood later in life, these everyday rituals can be some of the most powerful bonding activities we’ll ever share. Whether it’s flipping pancakes, cracking eggs, or just stirring a bowl of batter together, breakfast becomes more than a meal—it becomes a memory. If you’ve been looking for mea

Anderson Alves
Sep 8, 20254 min read
Why I Wrote Late Fatherhood: A Journey of Love and Legacy
At 44, I thought my parenting days were behind me. My eldest daughter, Vitória, was already 18, stepping confidently into her own...

Anderson Alves
Sep 1, 20252 min read
The Mental Challenge of Late Fatherhood
For me, the biggest challenge hasn’t been the lack of energy — it’s been mental balance . Stress piles up. You’re not just thinking...

Anderson Alves
Aug 28, 20252 min read
Every Father Says He Would Die for His Kids. The Question Is—Would You Live for Them?
We’ve all heard it—or said it ourselves. “I’d die for my kids.” It’s powerful, noble, and true for most fathers. But here’s the harder...

Anderson Alves
Aug 22, 20252 min read
Strong, Energetic, and Present: How Dads Over 40 Can Prioritize Health and Longevity
Becoming a father later in life is a beautiful journey. It comes with wisdom, patience, and perspective that younger dads often haven’t...

Anderson Alves
Aug 17, 20252 min read
Why Being a Dad Over 40 Might Be the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You
When I became a father again at 44, I thought I knew what to expect.After all, I’d already raised a daughter into adulthood. I had...

Anderson Alves
Aug 12, 20252 min read
The Energy Crash After 40: Why Most Dads Feel It and What to Do About It
If you're a dad over 40, you’ve probably noticed something different in the last few years: You don’t wake up as refreshed… Afternoon...

Anderson Alves
Aug 4, 20252 min read
Finding Strength in the Second Round: Why Late Fatherhood Is a New Beginning, Not a Setback
Introduction When I became a father again at 44, I thought I was ready — after all, I had raised a daughter already. But what I quickly...

Anderson Alves
Jul 30, 20252 min read
Talking to Your Adult Kids When You Become a Dad Again
When I found out I was going to be a father again at 44, I was still adjusting to the idea myself…But one thought hit me harder than any...

Anderson Alves
Jul 23, 20252 min read
5 Easy Routines Every Health-Conscious Dad Should Try for a Better Life
As a dad, balancing family life, work, and your health can often seem overwhelming. However, even small changes can lead to a...

Anderson Alves
Jul 21, 20253 min read
Becoming a Dad Again at 44: What I Didn’t Expect (But Needed to Learn)
I thought my parenting days were behind me. My daughter was already 18. Independent, smart, and starting to carve out her own life. I had...

Anderson Alves
Jul 20, 20252 min read
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